what you say is all true, but you see, my daughter still asks me if she can go on this site, the site itself is harmless enough, its the certain topics that I dislike, and would not want her seeing. I appoligize if I seemed to be policeing it. If there was only a way to clean out the objectionable topics that don't have anything to do with ballet, you see, my Jennifer is only 8 yrs old, I don't need her exposed to freaks who fantasize about inflicting pain on others. But you are right, I have no business posting here, but I'm afraid I'm going to have to discourage my daughter from coming here.....for now. If she asks about it again sometime in the future, I'll check again to see if I think its ok. Thank you for pointing this out to me young man, you seem like a stand up character. and with this, I bid this site farewell.[/i]