well, since your name is more unisex than others, it might be safe for me to ask: are you a guy or a girl? That can make a world of difference. The only thing abnormal about having a crush on a girl with a pink leotard is if you are a guy and gay. (that was partially a joke too). Whats really wierd is that the leotard was invented for guys, first worn by a guy, and named after one (same thing with tights except they arent named after anybody). I admit to being an outsider, so i have heard that some guys do have to wear them some guys dont; those that do usually wear them under the tights which makes no sense(but it sounds better than wearing a dance belt)
As for shaving, that would depend on whether or not you are male or female...us guys tend to have a bit more hair to worry about but i doubt that either sex goes totally without shaving anything (anyone else wwanna say anything about this?)
P.S. personally id take wearing tights love wearing jeans halfway down my butt (yes i am straight)[/i]