 
Balletlover - Balletmania
written by Ben on 12.04. at 15:27:24 - as answer to: men and ballet slippers!!!! by Yv I would dare say that we guys to have a life and for me it's a very good one. I never fails to amaze me at the intolerance there is when it comes to sexual turn-ons that are have not be deemed "normal" whatever that is. Would you be asking your boyfriend the same thing if he were turned on by you having your hair dyed a particular color? Look at how women mutilate themselves to make their breast bigger for those "normal" men who have a fetish for big breasted women!!! Yet nobody thinks there's anything wrong with these guys! Or what is the purpose of HEELS? Only a sexual turn-on it what yet again, those men who love seeing high-heels on women aren't chastised as we who love to see our women in ballet slippers or pointe shoes are! Why? Ours is a rather tame fetish compares to many that are considered more the norm and yet if you were to become involved in the some of the growing number of Ballet-Fetish e-mail group & clubs as well as websites and hompages; If you could perhaps chat with the ladies who share this wonderous fetish, I believe that you might see your man in a new light and maybe not put him down for what his particular turn-on is. And the irony is that is it something that you too much enjoy doing! Maybe it's not the same sexual turn-on for you but what is any dance but sympoblic sexuality??? Are men and women who love the sexuality of the tango and the attire that is worn with it somehow, different from anyone else? Don't you have one thing that when you see feel or touch it gives rise to your sensuality and sexuality? The best part is that when there is sexual honesty between a man and woman, it can lead to all sorts of beautiful possibilities for both! And to two very happy and mellow people! :o) I hope that this has been of some help and more importantly, I do hope you won't be so hard on you man. Do know that he loves you. The slippers are his way of focusing his desires for you. Please let him focus and perhaps you'll both be happy!
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