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written by shane at on 28.08. at 05:09:26 - as answer to: Buyin' 'em for the first time by Dep >So, what was it like for you?It's been so long ago now, i'll be 43 in nov., i can't really remember. but, i think it was at a dance/costume shop and the clerks were really cool. i like and wear dark colors daily under my dress slacks but, the wider selection of colors in those days were great lighter blues and green for example. now a days it's mostly the same but that's cool to. i match my tights with my shirt and typically wear khaki pants. blues, green, burgundy, black and even white. i'm cool with it. often on my drive home i'll remove my slacks and add a cotton casual tee style dress for the ride home. it's noyhing perverted. it's just comfortable for me.i can tell you of two sorta uncomfortable experiences. i was in my late twenties or early thirties when a clerk in j c penny said something when i checked out with my panties. she asked, are you sure they are the right size? i stumbled and studdered and said, oh, there for my wife. ( i was the only one in the conversation that knew i was single ) She looked at me and said, well i know from experience that panties are more comfortable than male briefs but, on men if they're too tight, they're very uncomfortable. i laughed as my face turned red and said, oh, no they'e for my wife.then still about thirtyish, i was in cvs when an aquaintance came up to me as i was picking out several pair of pantyhose. she knew i wasn't married. it was before i came out as a psuedo cross dresser. she said something off the wall about men in hose and i just joked back. now i drive a few miles away not to see acquaintances. i really don't mind friends seeing me. if they are in the yard when i'm out they see me. i refused to hide.that's another deal. even though i look very effeminate, i don't feel like a girl. i enjoy the dance wear and panties. i have to cover them up with long shirts or tees. but i'll do my hair differently for casual time asapposed to professional times. as a petit man it's hard for me to look masculine anyway. clear complexion, long hair and small frame except my butt. that's another thing, my butt looks so good in leggings. the girlfriends in my life joke that when we go out, they are in compitetion with me to look good.i'm rambling now but i'm glad i've found this site. in my old fashin nieghborhood not many understand. they still are very supportive as your good friends are. but, they can't really relate Answers to this message: |
