 
Balletlover - Balletmania
written by Gary at on 17.11. at 00:55:10 - as answer to: Re: How my tights fetish started by Billy at >Your story has many familiar aspects, including the clever strategies to dress up in tights, the anxiety of having to hide your things, and the joy of those understanding sales clerks. You also mention therapy and the sense that dressing up seems 'ridiculous'at times.>As so many contributors to this message board would tell you, don't worry! Enjoy your fetish and the wonderful sensuality and pleasure that it adds to your life. Most therapists (unless you hit one that is awfully conservative) will counsel you on how to put aside the anxiety and to be comfortable with your love of tights, etc. They usually advise you to find safe, comfortable situations to dress up, and they can also help you find the right way to let your wife, girlfriend, or family in on your secret if you choose to.>So enjoy! >Regards, Billy Thanks for the response, Billy. I realized after therapy that this is technically nothing to worry about. In fact, the duality is somewhat of a bonus. The only issue is the female partner I end up falling in love with. The risk of being judged. One might say "Well, if she can't accept you with this fetish, then she isn't worth it." It may also be the kind of thing where it becomes a test. If she really loves me, she'll tolerate it (if it is a turn off for her). Or allow it, but not around her. Who knows... maybe I'll just get lucky one day. :-) Answers to this message: |
