 
Balletlover - Balletmania
written by Gary at on 17.11. at 01:33:19 - as answer to: Love tights and leotards by mike >As I got older, (early 80's) the aerobics craze started to hit and there were pictures and tv shows of all of these hot young women in leotards and tights. I was in college so really couldn't do much about my fetish--not much privacy. I started dating a girl who was a dancer. One time before Christmas break, I snuck in her room and put on some tights and a leotard. I took them home with me for Christmas and would wear them everynight. It's funny, because she dressed me as a ballerina for halloween the next year and had me wear the same leotard and tights that I had taken at Christmas.>I have quite a collection of tights and leotards, bodysuits and unitards now--my wife doesn't know about my fetish and I am afraid to tell her. She is a dancer also and is around men in tights all the time, but not sure how she will react to me since I don't dance. Maybe I should start?? If you plan on being with her for the "long run", you'll have to tell her at some point. That's what honesty is all about, sharing all of the "secrets". Someone later on mentioned that female dancers are usually quite turned off by non-dancer guys with tights fetishes. It's a strange, kinky thing to them, especially since tights are considered everyday wear for them. I would think it's also the threat of the man being interested more in tights than in women. In your case, you really have to balance this on how you read your girlfriend. DEFINITELY don't come across nervous or bothered about telling her. In fact, an easy way to get into this might be doing a little role playing. You could suggest as a fantasy that you both dress up as if you were doing a ballet performance. And then, as you enacted part of it, the fantasy kicks in and then you both being to ravage each other. If this works out, and she enjoys this, you can try doing it a few more times. Then mention to her casually that you found it quite surprising, that wearing the tights was rather comfortable (saying how you had always thought they'd feel odd). If that goes well, then later on you could ask if she minded you wearing them once in a while. Something like that. Anyway,let us know how it goes!! Good luck... (by the way, if you hadn't seen my posting about my experience, go to:http://www.us.parsimony.net/forum27099/messages/1875.htm) Answers to this message: |
