In these high pressure days where some many kids are into drugs, violence and self destruction, you should be relieved that your son only has a fetish for tights. As one person previously said "It's no big deal". I second that. The worst thing you can do is forbid him to wear his tights. Try to talk to him, and don't get bogged down with the old stereotype that "tights are only for girls". Many young males develop a fetish for many types of female attire, and go on to live perfectly normal and hetrosexual lives. If you son is gay, don't blame the tights. I hope you will be patient and understanding. Oh, by the way. If he doesn't want to talk about, don't worry about it. In time he'll be willing to reach out to you. Please do read a lot of the previous postings here. we all share a passion for wearing tights, and we all feel good about it.