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written by Seamless at on 11.12. at 04:04:19 - as answer to: My Son and Tights by C >I checked his drawers and found several pairs of girls tights in his drawers. Although you spelled "concerned" as "concerbed", the way you wrote your message suggests a possibility of being genuine. Hence, I'd like to reply. First, I went through the same thing as your son. My mother found out and forbidded me to wear them. That increased the "value" of them, and I became even more intrigued and determined to wear them. My fetish became my nemesis for years to come, until I later learned to accept it and not torture myself about it. Second,If you don't scold your son or forbid him to wear them, and show him you're not out to deprive him of this interest, it may actually not develop into anything more than a passing phase in his sexual development (at this point he may not even realize why he's interested in them). It may not even be a real fetish, but just a mild curiosity. As someone else stated in this forum, if it turns out that this is a fetish which becomes a strong part of him, you could consider it an asset. I have a very active sexual libido, and if I didn't have tights to fall on for the years throughout my twenties, I probably would have indulged in more casual sex and put myself at high risk of STD's (sexually transmitted diseases). So, it's nothing to worry about. An interest in tights has little if no connection to being gay, so don't dig too deeply into this. Good luck... ~Seamless~ Answers to this message:
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