 
Balletlover - Balletmania
written by JPWT at on 19.12. at 22:25:36 - as answer to: Re: Os Sugarplum Fairies and... by Seamless at >How very expressive--you write well. Autumn has always been my 2nd favorite season, partly due to the rolling out and slipping on of tights onto women's legs. Especially when you have that 5'6" woman with a perfectly sized pair of microfiber super opaques (often asian women for some reason) encasing her sculpted legs so smoothly and completely. Then she lets her slip-on shoe dangle on the end of her nylon covered toes, and [whoops, got carried away].>Yeah, I remember as a young lad being dragged to the Nutcracker with my family, first unwillingly, then caught in a gaze of amazement at all of the children prancing about gleefully in their snuggly comforting opaque tights. Everyone wore tights, it amazed me so much. How I wished I was up on that stage, taking the place of the lead boy actor Sean!>But I digress... As for your classmate, do NOT pass this up. I can say from experience that being hesistant buys you nothing but the opportunity for loss. At any given time, another guy could come by (and will if you don't first) to snatch away your chances. But I'd refrain from showing your interest in tights for quite a while. Get to know her, and see how accepting she is first.>My girlfriend has no interest in seeing ballet, mainly because (and I quote) "It just looks odd to me, those guys prancing around in tights. Yuck!". She took ballet when she was a kid for many years. Such hypocracy, where it's ok for her to wear them and odd for men (even when it is ACCEPTED attire in ballet). Anyway, this relationship is just about doomed anyway.>But enough about me... take your chances my tights clad friend, before the season has gone. Who knows--she may not have any plans for New Years. Good luck!>~Seamless~>>> Argh! 'Tis the season to be surrounded by sugarplum fairies with legs encased in candied pink gloss,nutcracker regiments marching off to battle in their regimental white tights against legions of black-hosed rodent minions,and of love-lorn Princes clad in white hot nylon/lycra webbing...sigh... This is most certainly the time of year when many tights enthusiasts must be driven to the brink of mania. As I am now bereft of an accomodating sweetheart (our "relationship",such as it was,ended on a rather acrimonious note three months ago)that would indulge my passion for colorful leg wear,I am in the midst of a feverish form of "hose-withdrawl". There are no less than FOUR ballet studios that surround my neighborhood;tights are more common then scooters in this neck of the woods. One of my lovely classmates has graced the pages of the L.A. Times "Calender" section, her legs-in arabesque-the most prominent and attractive feature. I am in dire need of release. What would you guys do in my position? It takes time to develop a relationship, and though there is one lovely young woman that has expressed a mutual interest in spending a bit of "getting to know you" time, it certainly does not help things in the short run. I would be most open to suggestions. Depon, Queen M., anybody? If there is anybody in the Riverside/San Diego Cal. area who would be interested in spending quality time encased in their favorite Danskins, Capezios,M. Stevens etc., please drop me an e-line. I know you're out there. At this writing I am clad in my favorite pair of (white) M. Stevens dance tights; it would be fun to "partner" another danseur/danseuse in identical costume. Best to all. Your suggestions are most welcome. Sign me, "Dancerintights" Hi Seamless, You and me both buddy. I kept my secret from my wife for quite a while insofaras how long I had been into tights. She knew I liked wearing tights from our third date (we have been together 16 years), and acceptance has been difficult in coming. Fact was that I had been in tights ever since I was 5 and that part of my whole secret came out finally last year (she had always wanted to know when this "tights thing" started. Disappointed that I had never told her this (she said it would not have made a difference-she would have still married me [I am lucky], it can nevertheless be a heavy burden to carry for oneself and a difficult thingfor another person who you want to spend the rest of your life to accept. And the best advice I can give a person here (who shares this same passion for tights as I and is living proof that you can carry on a normal relationship) - and who's partner IS willing to live with it, is to do so in moderation. Don't overdo it. Don't burn the other person out on it. Sometimes its OK to share this with your other, and sometimes you share intimacy the way the rest of the world does. My wife will usually tell me when its OK for us to dress up (we both do) and "play". But it can't ALWAYS be that way. Moderation is the key. This fetish will always be part of my life and my wife can live with that. I hope things work out with your relationship with your girlfriend. Answers to this message: |
