Balletlover - Balletmania
written by Dep on 12.04. at 04:10:55 - as answer to: Re: a tights laundry encounter by Seamless at >-->It's a tricky thing. As JPWT said, "these same women have a tendency to be attracted to quasi 'macho' guys; they all fit the same stereotypical profile of a beer guzzling ,VERY SPORTS ORIENTED, self centered, narrow minded type (that are always very insecure).">It's finding the woman that doesn't fit this mold. But even she will be conditioned on the social norms. It's a delicate thing, to slowly introduce the "interest". You can't just lay it on 'em face first, otherwise it is a shocking experience and you'll guaranteed rejection. And then there's the "reading"... seeing how she takes certain things, like showing your desire to see her wearing tights/pantyhose. If she can't stand to wear them, you know that she'll not warm up to the idea of her man wearing them!>Those women do exist. Look at some of the people here who talk of girlfriends that accept the fetish. So, Riddler, there is a chance you'll be accepted. But you must not come on like gangbusters! Just my 2 cents.>~Seamless~ >>>Right! Dea and I spent an unusual amount of time getting a feel for each other, as we'd both recently gotten out of a string of bad affairs. So I was extraordinarily careful when I let her know that tights on a girl were a turn-on for me, and I was extraterrestrially careful when I confessed to my desire to wear tights myself. I told her everything-how it started, what part tights play in my fantasies and my sexual history, etc. Dea recently told me that I handled it perfectly. Yeah, I'm lucky, all right!-Depon Answers to this message:
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