 
Balletlover - Balletmania
written by Seamless at on 12.04. at 18:20:28 - as answer to: Re: a tights laundry encounter by JPWT at >Hi Seamless,> In my case, my wifes acceptance is rather bittersweet. It seems sometimes its OK, and other times she can get very burned out ( jealous of the tights!)..>She has asked before (at a time when she was getting rather burned out) why I needed this fetish so badly.She asked why I couldn't just turn it off.>She had a hard time accepting that tights and leotards were part of me.>But yet she does. I'm lucky I guess.>You can not smother women with this fetish (unless they have the fetish of seeing men in tights- good luck). Give them the masculine side as well as the the fetish (but not just the fetish!!!!). It is a balancing act.> I don't look or act the least bit feminine. Though I do take ballet, I have often heard women tell me that I don't look or act 'the part'of most guys who might dress like I do (pink tights or whatever). They are almost surprised that I do ballet.I feel that way also sometimes as if I don't fit in.> What am I supposed to do? How should I act? Should I talk with a lisp?> Its very strange. > It can be a tough balance. Give the women the attention and love she needs. Slowly work in the fetish just a little at a time.Do have other interest besides tights (preferably maybe something more masculine like cars or other hobbies and hobbies and interest that both of you can share. >Thats what I have learned (many times the hard way.) --Hi JPWT, thanks for sharing. I appreciate seeing your side of things. I can see how a woman would feel a little jealous, or threatened. It's the same thing with the dildo. A man would feel like "Hey, ain't I good enough??" It's just an understanding that there needs to be some variety. That makes each type of sexuality so much more enjoyable. e.g. if you like chocolate ice cream and never eat any other type, your appreciation will fade. ~Seamless~ Answers to this message: |
