 
Balletlover - Balletmania
written by The Riddler on 04.07. at 18:00:11 - as answer to: Who do I choose? by DancemaniaK at >Been thinking a lot lately about something that's been killing me. I have a girlfriend and we have been going out for a long time. I already know she's the one I'm willing to have as my life-long partner, the one I will marry. She's beautiful, kind and very loving. She also comes from a pretty conservative upbringing and I know for a fact she will NEVER understand my lycra fetish. I have never worn lycra or shown any interest in the matter when I'm with her. I love her dearly and know I am definately going to have to make a decision soon. I have lived with my lycra for almost 10 years and don't know if I can do without. What should I do? Anyone who has been in this situation, please help me.>DancemaniaK That is a very perplexing poroblem. I guess that if you desire her more than your lycra outfits, you probably should give up your lycra fetish, if that's at all possible. I believe that a fetish is as much a part of you as your hair color. People like us battle with such situations everyday of our lives. I can only hope that your girlfriend would be accepting of something that is a part of you. I would also go along with what Terry Gal suggested. Start taking ballet, or some other activity that would require you to wear your lycra tights, leotards and unitards. If ballet is "too wierd" for you, try a yoga class. Wearing lycra unitards in a yoga class is not at all unusual. However, no matter what advice we offer, the decision is all yours. I truly wish you all the best which ever way you choose. Answers to this message: |
