 
Balletlover - Balletmania
written by Seamless at on 06.07. at 01:06:26 - as answer to: My decision.... by DancemaniaK at >I lay in bed crying all night as I finally made the choice that has long been overdue. I miss my girlfriend so much but pray I have made the right decision. I am also disgusted and ashamed I did not have the guts to tell her the truth as I know she definately deserves to know. I feel like a failure but can't stand the thought of keeping a significant part of me hidden from the one I love. To answer a few questions, I did take ballet lessons until I met my girlfriend and yes, we were going to be engaged soon.>Finally, I'm simply overwhelmed by the support and advice all of you have shown. >Thanks everyone. >DancemaniaK--From what you've said before, I'm taking it that you never told her about your ballet classes? Why did you quit once you met her? Was that just a coincidence, or did you like her so much that you feared her rejecting you for your interest in ballet? I'm glad our advice has helped you. I can certainly understand your fear and it becoming an outlet to cry through. The first and only time I told a girlfriend of my fetish, I started crying before I could finish the details. She had the impression she was going to hear of something horrible or extreme. In the end, she wondered what the big deal was. At first she had some concerns about sexuality, like was there a chance for latent homosexuality, but having a very good sex life together helped dispell that. Again, had I been more casual about it, it would've been easier. So, good luck... please let us know how it all goes! And of course, if you need any backing on this, you've got this board to call upon. I'd be more than happy to help. ~Seamless~ Answers to this message: |
