btw, whats your email address depon?

woman", "what if he becomes obsessed and starts wearing more women's clothes?"), while another might think it's cute.  >>The only issue you'll have is with a girl who is threatened.  Then you have to determine to what level it might be.  If you are sure you'll get a strong negative reaction, then it might be a sign that this girl isn't for you.  If you think there's a chance there will be a slight negative reaction, then there may be an opportunity to handle this in a way that will work.>>The first and foremost thing is getting a "reading".  Are you athletic?  Do you run?  Get a pair of men's running tights.  Sport yourself around in them and see how she reacts.  After a few times, ask her what she thinks of the look--is she attracted or feels weird?  If you get a positive response then look at two possibilities:  start a campaign of exploring her reactions to men in tights (take her to a ballet; offer a Halloween idea of the both of you dressed as ballet partners), or, come right out with it--"You might think this is funny, but, I actually like wearing tights.  Something about the stretching feeling all over.  It's... it's kind of a turn-on for me."  And go from there.>>It's very situational.  You'll have to come up with your own strategy on dealing with this.  But take your time.  There is no rush.  ESPECIALLY if you have very strong feelings for her.  Good luck!>>~Seamless~>>>>My experience was like this: I'd been with Dea for about six months before I'd told her that tights (on her) are a turn on for me, and about a year (maybe more) before I brought up the subject of wearing them myself. By that time, I'd already established myself as a trustworthy, caring, committment-minded sort of sexual dynamo, so we were both pretty invested in our future when I broached the subject. Dea later told me that I'd timed it perfectly. We'd been discussing our sexual pasts one night, and I sort of eased into it, telling her about my early experiences (that led to my fetish,) and just gently told her that I like wearing tights. She was understanding (but I think a touch weirded out) at first, but as our relationship deepened, she began to see it as part of what makes me me, and since she's in love with me...see what I'm getting at?>>>>Take your time! Let's see how she reacts to the usual new relationship stresses (you, too!) Then, when it looks like you're potentially "keepers" in each others' eyes, let it come out as part of her discovering you. By then, you should have a good idea of how she'll react. Good luck, and let us know how it works out, when it does.-Depon>>>>Of course, you may want to consider the Robin Hood/Peter Pan/Romeo trick this Hallows. Certainly a safe way to gauge her potential reaction!