>This site says "ballet lover, ballet mania". So what does that include? It seems like a tights fetish site, is that it strictly? >I'm a gay male dancer and I am NOT a cross dresser, I like men's dance attire only. Am I totally in the wrong place? I have lurked here for a while because of the flame wars but now that it appears it's blowing over I am getting the strong impression I don't belong. If I am correct, is there a better place for people to talk about ballet and what they find erotic about it?  Thank you, Luke