 
Balletlover - Balletmania
written by Jon on 01.11. at 08:46:56 I think the logical solution is to be upfront and honest with Chris. Tell him boldly and clearly that you don't like him hanging around, etc. When I was in junior high, I had an incredible crush on one of my brother's friends. This guy was 16 or 17 and really good looking -- I didn't realize I had a crush on him -- I was still totally unaware of what all was happening with my body. But all the time, I was doing dumb stuff in front of Scott, my brother's friend. Like I would hang on him and want him to see me naked -- and all sorts of stuff. Finally one day, Scott grabbed me while I was jumping on his back or something and said firmly and clearly -- "JON - stop hanging all of me! I will be your friend-- but you're driving me crazy!" It really embarrassed me - but I got the point. I stopped! I didn't hang around much for awhile. He later became a good friend to me. He was there when I really needed him about five years later. We never ever talked about those terrible times in junior high when my hormones were out of control. Thanks for your understanding to Chris and also recognizing that racking him good isn't the answer. Be patient. he probably needs a friend and that might eventually be you. BUT, first help him to know that probably wearing pantyhose, etc. isn't the best idea in public. Keep up the good work! Answers to this message: |
