 
Balletlover - Balletmania
written by Dep on 04.09. at 07:43:31 - as answer to: Re: A bit hard to believe I know, but... by Vic at >>>>>>>>>>Just my humble opinion, but if there is to be "swinging" (a.k.a. swapping) taking place, I'd say being clad in tights is pretty mild considering the circumstances (you did say "no holds barred"). I'd just be sure you & Dea are in total sync about the parameters of the evening in regards to each other. My dear Marie has expressed passing curiousity with the general concept over the years, but the situation has yet to present itself, and I'm not sure what I think about it, frankly. I'd say you can't go wrong with a bold "attire presentation" from you & Dea, & perhaps a little exhibitionism, but still remembering who you CAME with & will go HOME with. You'll contribute your share of spice to the evening without the worry of emotional knots (or, heaven forbid, the potential for S.T.D.s) Let us know what happens!!! And welc0me back! Best Wishes- Vic >>>Thanks, Vic! Thanks, Ang! Believe you me, the galpal and I will be on each other's short leash all the while (p'rhaps literally? Hmmm...) Dea tends to be a lot more squeamish about this sort of stuff, so I'm just going to let her set the boundaries, and make sure we both stay well within! And I honestly haven't asked the galpal how SHE feels about she and I (or just me) being "properly clad," so I've gotta check on that, too. The friends throwing the thang already have an inkling about me (how couldn't you after seeing me the past two Hallowe'ens?) so I'll probably hear about it anyway, unless they're too occupied! I think we're both more intrigued by watching and being watched, so hopefully that'll be the tone of the eve. That being said, we have both expressed a desire to quad up with another bi-curious couple, but there's a LOT of discussion between us and that! I'll keep y'all posted on the outc0me, o'course. -Depon (In: Black LB Supers-woo, they're awesome!) >>>P,S, I might be brewin' up a storytime sometime soon... Answers to this message: |
