 
Balletlover - Balletmania
written by Seamless at on 14.05. at 06:21:33 - as answer to: how to get rid of my tights fetish? by nomore! at You said you want your tights fetish to go away. But you didn't say anything about the fetish. How intense is it? What is the nature of it? There are many variations of fetishes. None of us can give you advice tailored to you without enough information. Regardless of the details, the Tights Villan is correct -- you must accept it. It is part of who you are. Whether you like it or not, it is filling a need. Understanding why you have it is helpful, but even more important is the reason why you want to get rid of it. Is it fear of judgement from others? Is it concern that it interferes with other aspects of your sexuality? Usually a fetish c0mes about through a misunderstanding or unusual conclusion about human sexuality. The brain ends up wired "differently". It is possible to "brainwash" yourself out of it... but it is not easy to do, especially after many years of the fetish have been experienced. The best thing to do is accept it and change your perspective. Rather than looking at it as a negative or hinderance, consider it an option or alternative that many people don't have. Sexuality is mostly in the mind. The more things that can stimulate you sexually, the greater variety you have at hand. Answers to this message: |
