>>>I used to toss my tights out every time I got into a relationship. The relationships ended, always for other reasons than my fetish - though I've honestly only c0nfessed to three of the women from my past (and of course, the one from my present and future!) Eventually, I found someone understanding enough, and as part of our growing together (and boyo, we've been doing that in spades lately,) she's gone from accepting this part of me, to actually enjoying it. I think you should do whatever makes you feel like you're improving your chances of finding someone, but if you find someone special enough, she or he is going to have to know about this part of you, whether you've deprived yourself of it, or not!-Depon ("Don't serve your country, don't serve your king.")