There's a reason we are cautious to try new things --  - but this one's pretty harmless. My rationale:: if it doesn't liveup to my expectations, it might not be such a thrill/fantasy anymore.>.>As I recall from your post a while back, you felt your tastes in this regard were hindering you from forming "normal" relationships. Well, if you are up for taking a dance class, I can't imagine a better place to meet someone that wouldn't have a problem with your inclinations! And even if you don't meet that special someone, you'll be a stronger, better person for having made the attempt. Good luck, and keep us informed!- Vic