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written by Vic at on 19.11. at 17:49:13 - as answer to: Tights sex by Todd >put this in new thread because i thought it might get lost in the longer "tights sex" thread:>So I've been instant messaging with the girl that I mentioned, and it was getting pretty down and dirty two days ago...I also casually asked if she went out for halloween, and she said no - not that into halloween anymore, blah blah blah...so anyway, we went back to "dirty IM" and eventually we even talked about "tying up" and things of that nature - more or less light kink...so, as I was on a roll - I went for it, and said, "we could pretend we're at a halloween party and both wear tights, and roll around and tie each other up...Crazy fetish I know, but hot I think for both of us. What do you think?" So I the message I get back - "we can try it." Ok, so not a particularly ringing or enthusistic "yes! yes!" but what do you expect. It was a start...we get back to dirty IM, and go back and forth on regular sex things...I think i went back to halloween for some reason, because of a friend, and how i didn't go out either or something, and she said "well, we can have our own little halloween costume party." Hmmmmm, getting better. I liked that comment. What do you think? Then, being careful not to seem way way too excited about tights and costume wearing with her, we go back to other things...Finally, I say "oh by the way, once for a drama class I took they gave me two pairs of tan tights to wear for a part in a play (ok kind of a lie) and the one pair of tights didn't fit, so they'd be pefect for you. :))" I did that just to kind of drive the point home that I was serious, and to just see one final time if she was leading me on, or didn't think i was really serious, or what have you, and she said "perfect. I'll bring my own pair too." So that too, I thought was good. Very good. More encouraging than I would have thought. I'll still be nervous when the time comes, and I'm sure in the back of my mind think "she thinks I'm gay," or "she thinks I'm a freak," but hey, maybe not. Maybe I just take a deep breath and just get into it, please her, have fun myself, and we just get really erotic. I so much want her to get off on it and like it, but I know that's probably not that realistic. I just don't want her to tell anyone! We do have mutual friends. that would not be good. Thoughts? Thanks!>Todd...Hi- I wrote a response in the older thread. Good luck! Vic Answers to this message: |
