 
Balletlover - Balletmania
written by Ballerina Boy at on 12.01. at 04:56:06 - as answer to: far from going out with a bang, I'm afraid... by Seamless at >Everybody is unique in some respect. You can have similarities, but even things in common are different. Especially where fetishes are concerned, even of the same genre. It's been great participating in this forum, seeing all of these different perspectives, in addition to moral support. Thanks to everyone who has given constructive and entertaining postings here over the years!>Well, for me, I could never get to that point of free acceptance of the fetish. I'm what I'd call a distracted-hetero. While indulging in tights, I'd experience a lessened drive to seek out a sex partner. Of course, seeing a woman in tights always got me going, but finding someone who shares the same interest... well, I couldn't get lucky. Even a rare few seemed to be simply "considerate" and were simply unable to see it through my eyes. A big tip o' the hat to Vic and Depon for finding their dream partners!>So I concluded that the only way I could be happy was to be rid of the fetish enough to no longer feel the need to wear them. Certainly, admiring women wearing tights would never die. But I didn't want to feel that longing anymore...>I tried a number of times to shed the lycra sheathings, but I'd keep coming back. I had to find another way... and eventually I did. Slowly but surely, my desire waned. At this point, I can put them on without any arousal and simply feel neutral about them. And boy, has it unleashed me... I'm on the prowl, taking numbers, getting dates--it's how I was always meant to be.>So I feel confident enough at this point to say I'm through. I've no longer got the need to wear tights, nor converse with others about them. It's time to move on. And anyway, the board just hasn't been able to recover from the spammers from a couple of years ago.>I hope that those of you who remain active can give each other the support and entertainment you need. I wish all of you the best in 2005!>--snipping time-->Farewell my friends,>~Seamless~ I wish you luck Seamless, truly I do. I to have tried to shed the tights once and for all, but have always been defeated in my efforts. I now accept my tights fetish as being a part of me as much as my brown eyes and brown hair. I do think that you will once again feel the desire to suit up in your tights. The longer you stay away from something you really like, the stronger the cravings go. But if you are happy without wearing tights, then I'm happy for you and salute your courage. For those of us who still seek pleasure wearing tights I do wish you would stay on this site and keep us informed as to how your life without tights develops. Best of luck to you!! Ballerina Boy Answers to this message: |
