 
Balletlover - Balletmania
written by me too. at on 17.01. at 21:19:21 - as answer to: far from going out with a bang, I'm afraid... by Seamless at >Everybody is unique in some respect. You can have similarities, but even things in common are different. Especially where fetishes are concerned, even of the same genre. It's been great participating in this forum, seeing all of these different perspectives, in addition to moral support. Thanks to everyone who has given constructive and entertaining postings here over the years!>Well, for me, I could never get to that point of free acceptance of the fetish. I'm what I'd call a distracted-hetero. While indulging in tights, I'd experience a lessened drive to seek out a sex partner. Of course, seeing a woman in tights always got me going, but finding someone who shares the same interest... well, I couldn't get lucky. Even a rare few seemed to be simply "considerate" and were simply unable to see it through my eyes. A big tip o' the hat to Vic and Depon for finding their dream partners!>So I concluded that the only way I could be happy was to be rid of the fetish enough to no longer feel the need to wear them. Certainly, admiring women wearing tights would never die. But I didn't want to feel that longing anymore...>I tried a number of times to shed the lycra sheathings, but I'd keep coming back. I had to find another way... and eventually I did. Slowly but surely, my desire waned. At this point, I can put them on without any arousal and simply feel neutral about them. And boy, has it unleashed me... I'm on the prowl, taking numbers, getting dates--it's how I was always meant to be.>So I feel confident enough at this point to say I'm through. I've no longer got the need to wear tights, nor converse with others about them. It's time to move on. And anyway, the board just hasn't been able to recover from the spammers from a couple of years ago.>I hope that those of you who remain active can give each other the support and entertainment you need. I wish all of you the best in 2005!>--snipping time-->Farewell my friends,>~Seamless~ Thanks for posting this, I have felt the same way and the tights collection went out with the new year. Like many here, i swing between wanting to go 'all out' with it and something, deep down inside, that makes me think its' hindering me. like you and probably most people here, I don't think I am every going to enjoying a tights clad sweaty dancer leaving from ballet class (which happens quite a bit here in New York (!), but indulging in this fetish has detracted from persuing 'normal' relationships.If anyone has any tips for 'getting off' (no not that way) this fetish, please by all means.... Answers to this message: |
