 
Balletlover - Balletmania
written by Seamless at on 19.01. at 06:56:44 - as answer to: far from going out with a bang, I'm afraid... by Seamless at Hi folks,Thanks for your supportive replies. All psychologically sound, I might add. Vic's point is right on. I'm just not happy with how my life has been going with this fetish. It would be completely different if I had a girlfriend who felt similarly about tights. But I haven't been lucky enough to find a girl who does... certainly, there's no way I'd list that as first criteria to a relationship! No, getting my brief moments wearing tights just wasn't fulfilling enough anymore. I started growing out of them, so to speak. Even though I would "slip back into them" after going cold turkey for a while, each time the draw was less. The one vehicle that really helped me was porn. Anytime I felt "the need", I'd pop in a video. No pantyhose, no tights. Just the bodies of voluptuous women doing the usual with a guy or with each other. It took about a year... for me, anyway. It's funny... I don't really miss tights. It's like, well, a child with his toys. When he grows into adulthood, he loses the urge to play with them. He certainly remembers what the feelings were like, but there's no longer an urge to indulge. Take out a toy truck, run it over the floor, let the imagination roll just as in the old days... nope, no thrill any longer. So that's my deal. Of course, who knows how things will go. I may fall off the wagon. But I'd have to be pretty desperate. Even now, I can shimmy into my favorite red lycra footed unitard with minimal seams... and not even the slightest hint of arousal appears... I have to really work hard for anything to start happening, unlike with the porn--which is nearly instant. If there's anyone else out there who's wanting to rid themselves of the tights, yes, there's certainly ways out. But everyone's situation is different. The best remedy of all is therapy. Oh yeah, and of course, just as I hang up my stretchies, Parsimony eliminates the "com" filter. Yep, COM. You can put in your website links again. LOL! Cheers,~Seamless~ Answers to this message:
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