 
Balletlover - Balletmania
written by Vic at on 12.12. at 16:20:22 - as answer to: Re: New girl by JustMe >>Well Let's see that last girl didn't want to continue a relationship with me because she said dealing with me having 3 kids is what she is looking for.>>These late blooming girls better realize that if they wait until there mid 40's to decide it's time to settle down alot of guys already have kids so they will be cutting down the number of eligible guys if the cut my kind out of the equation.>>Yesterday i went out with a girl I met on eharmony and we seemed to hit it off big time.>>The big thing is that she's a psychologist so if and when do I tell her about the tights thing. Oh and by the way when she works out she likes to wear tights and spamdexy clothes "I think I just met my drem girl".>>i did tell her about taking ballet classes when I was younger and for a joke and to feel her out I did refer to myself as a ballerina but she said I wouldn't really classify you as a ballerina.>>But tonight she let me know that she wears tights and spandexy clothes to workout in and I let her know guys like to see girls like that or at least I think it's very sexy. We'll see what she wears as my date to my company Xmas party this weekend.>>>>Further updates to follow.>>PTBL>Are you fully wedded to the idea that all of your dates should have the potential of permanence? >If not, and you can see some of these women as more of a month long 'fling', then a psychologist could be really fun! Tell her about your fetish right off the hoop. It'd be a 50/50 chance (as a guess) that she would perhaps be taken aback but hey, if she seems like she may be into kinks at all, perhaps her analytical mind would see your situation as entertaining both to her professional mind and her more basic instincts :)>Go for it!...>>>>>>As far as women (or men) writing off dating somebody with kids, I've heard it said that if someone gets to mid-life without any "baggage" (kids, ex- spouses, etc.), it means they probably didn't "pack enough for life's trip"!Good luck & keep us posted. Later!- Vic Answers to this message:
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