I am educated as a schoolpsycolog and work in the higher school. I found the proposal very fascinating and think he very well will manage the role as a ballerina as his theacher think he is very graceful.I think he has a lot of traditionl feminine components in his personality as he otherwise may be suppress and will first hesitate and may be refuse to the proposal. Don`t press him but say he can do it only if he wants, and give him time to think about it. If he dare to dress and act as a ballerina,I think he will find it very exciting and give him an oppurtunity to express other sides of his personality and be a more happy boy. I would be glad to hear from you.Arne [/i]