Instead, you need to seek to understand yourself better. Ask yourself why you like wearing tights? How does it make you feel? At what times do you most want to wear tights, and when do you not really care one way or another? Ask again and again, in different situations. Ask when you're wearing them and when you're not wearing them.
Another good thing is to wear tights in public. If they are an expression of who you are, then that is nothing to be ashamed of. Before venturing out, make sure you are pleased with how you look --- tights under shorts in the Fall might be a good outfit, for example. If you look confident then people won't make such a big deal out of it --- and you will find that you feel better about yourself. That is especially true if you don't attempt to look like a woman, but rather like a man wearing tights.
The first places to venture out are "anonymous" places --- shopping malls, for example. After that you might feel comfortable around friends. You may never wish to try wearing these outfits to work, but that may be OK with you. You will find affirmation for who you are and find that the thoughts of wearing tights hold less of a grip on your life.[/i]