"Reel Dancer", there's probably nicer ways to ask people to change their behavior. Be courteous - hey look guys, I come here to talk about dance and this disruptive. Addressing people as "freaks" probably isn't good start to achieving your wants and goals. Looks like "Gray" was a nice guy having some innocent fun in the wrong place.
"Depon" I don't know how old you are, but you seem rather immature. Quoting defiant rock music lyrics like a rebellious adolescent and coming back with phrases that are the equivlent of "I would get into a battle of wits, but ..blah blah unarmed man". Grow up, maybe that's part of the issues you're having. I think, frankly it's a bit childish to be sexualizing an art form - kind of like peeking in on cheerleader practice.[/i]