My remedy would be to treat you and your body with some respect...have you ever had a man just caress you from head-to-toe and everywhere in between???
You,ve shown that you're open-minded enough to let someone tie you up--well, I think that if he had done it right (and not so often) your experience may have been more pleasant. Did he ever just have you sit down to a homemade dinner wearing your dancer or nothing at all??? How about taking a bath together or washing you while you both took a shower??? There are sooo many other ways to "be different" and still bring you some pleasure as well.[/i]