I agree, nothing wrong with that.  I never thought about legs much but my wife was really into them.  When she met me she decided I had great legs.  She made me feel sexy about my legs and now I like showing them off for her.  I think that one day your appreciation of legs could certainly help if you appreciate your wife's legs.

> and i certainly don't> want to have that in myself - it's one thing to find clothes or> articles of clothing comfortable, and maybe sometimes sensual,

> it's> another if you can't put them on without associating it with sex and> then get to the point of having it be the only way to feel sexy.

I agree.  Over time, with a healthy outlook, you can find that other things make you feel sexy and that tights won't make you feel sexy uncontrollably --- even though you may still like to wear them.