It's ok to wear a leotard, just wear it under not over your tights. Most schools allow/ require black tights/white shirt or leotard. Make sure if you wear a t-shirt to buy it small enough to show the line of you arms but large enough to tuck in your tights. You also might consider the tank top (wife beater) style tees. Now the most important point, buy a dance belt. This will help conceal your bulging genitals or at least hold them steady. This is perhaps the most import article of clothing for the male dancer. I hope this all helps.[/i]