It appears as if you got you B/F into tights and a dancebelt and he loved the experience!
Are you being real? If so, what's the problem? The boyfriend like the stuff, but does he still like you? If he does, what's the problem?
If he doesn't like you anymore and is only interested in the sexual experience of the tights, he needs to talk to someone like me, but not is still anything that you should be interested in. If the dancewear becomes more exciting to him than you, you don't need him. He needs to talk with guys like me to understand how dancewear is functionsal for the art of dance, but also may have connotations of male sexualty.
I don't want to turn him gay, but help him understand what he's feeling with respect to himself as a male. Men are sensual beings and need to learn how to express that sensuality to their lovers.
So that's where it's at!! Tell me what you need and I'll try to help you get it!
balletboy[/i]