You are wise to be cautious. You don't say if you are currently studyingballet but if you are not, you will need to start soon. Pointe work depends on your skill level, determination and instructor. No you won't lose your toes, but pointe shoes not properly fitted and poor instruction could damageyour feet, knees and hips. Learn how to go on pointe properly. You arenot too old. It is well worth the time to evaluate the studio and instuctor.Good Luck. Elizabeth >danger of losing my toes forever???[/i]