Jim, Balletboy is right...personal preferences rule when it comes to selecting the dancewear that's right for you. Especially with Dancebelts that can take quite a bit of getting use to when worn for the first time. You will pobably need several of different colors so not to be so obvious when worn with lighter shades of leggings. I personally prefer a nylon/lycra belt with the thinest of butt strings. Also you may want to powder your upper buns to prevent chafing at first. I also believe you'll find the new Milliskin and Microfibre tights to be the most comfortable for beginning but usually are of a thinner denier than other tights. You may also consider wearing a thong leotard under your tights that give ample support but still leave an unobstucted rear view for your instructor's critique. Whatever you choose, best of luck and have a great time. You may email me if you have any other questions or curious inquiries about the art of male dance. Kerry[/i]