We are stuck in the tights problem!
We ballet guys use tights as a uniform, something we need to do our art. But there are guys who put more into tights.
I fully understand that guys, gay and straight, find tights erotic. But I find people erotic, whether they're in tights, naked, or in other dress. That's how I'm different. I would wear tights/unitards 24/7 if I could, because I think they feel great. But I rely on people for eros.
I'd advise guys who find tights erotic to look further, to go beyond self-centered masturbation to interaction with your fellow human beings. Questions about male dancewear should revolve around fit and structure, not how horney they can make you.
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