My friend, I respectfully suggest that you are the one who needs to get real. If, in looking at a picture of a dancer such as the one I commented on, you personally are able to parse an appreciation of "the beauty of their muscluar structure as it performs" from a recognition of the eroticism that I believe is inherent in such a photograph, I envy you. I can't make that separation. And, moreover, being a cynic, I seriously doubt that most people are able to make that distinction.
But then, while I have a very high opinion of male dancers, their bodies, and the wonderful and amazingly graceful and artistic things they can do with their bodies, in general, I have a very low opinion of human nature. I believe that most people who think they are ignoring the eroticism of such a photograph are only deluding themselves.
What can I say? I'm a cynic![/i]