I can relate to your fear of tights.
I am 20 now, I was a gymnast for 12 years.
I got to wear tights, stirrups and all that.
When I was young I was embarassed, but I started to like the ideaof looking at my self in the mirror and see myself in leggings/tightsleotards and other things...made me feel girlie and it got me in touch withmy feminine side...in touch with humility too...I am stricly hetero.Nowadays , i own several pairs of bike tights, bike shorts leggings and unitardsboth for men and women wich i enjoy wearing to the gym, around the house and to the mall. I am not built like a bodybuilder and have an average size penis and it shows through my shiny purple leggings when I go to my aerobics class...but who cares....I am sooooo comfy in them....[/i]