About a month ago, I posted a long message about wearing a dancebelt in class and the comfort problems with having my balls all pushed up (and somehow one still falling out on occasion...ouch)and worrying about the thong "feature" giving me a tender anus because of chafing and movement.
I found the combination of sometimes sweating in class and more that thong worked its way up...to be a problem and I couldn't bring it up in class to the instructor.
Well, I just laughed when I read someone reply to my message by calling it "an instrument of torture" but stuck with it. I had no choice, basically. For those adult newbies like me who might be reading, you really do get used to it and I now sometimes forget I'm even wearing it.
There is no getting around the elasticized thong, it's got a mind of its own! But I learned how to put the dance belt on and that's a major part. I find it easier for comfort by lying down to put it on. I kept "falling out" whenever I stood up to put it on. I put it on at home and take time to adjust my unit so it fits right.
I also use a hypoallergic cream called Glaxal Base which I put on before putting on the dancebelt. You can buy it in drugstores over the counter. You can rub it lightly into your skin, or work it all the way into your skin. I personally like to leave a little bit not rubbed in. I put the Glaxal Base on my sac and besides my testicles and then a fair bit between my cheeks.
Somehow the Glaxal Base has a way of protecting skin against chafing for sensitive skin like mine. The cream on your skin also softens the elastic part of the thong and it causes less friction. The elastic edge that is part of the pouch can cut into your skin, or at least it felt that way to me. If you don't rub the Glaxal Base in entirely, a little is absorbed by the material.
Like I said, putting on Glaxal Base before putting on the dance belt made a huge difference, far less irritation of my hole and actual comfort...much more than I first expected.
Finally, I think you just need time to get used to wearing it. I was already wearing a Large and an XL was not going to do the job. I think it would have made matters worse.
I did get used to wearing it although I took me about six weeks. Classes are hard for an adult men like me I guess but my instructor says I've made huge improvements. I'm enjoying them a lot. Probably a lot has to do with feeling more comfortable with the dance belt.
Thanks.
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