The rounded look up front depends on the type of dancebelt you wear. I usually wear a thin foam cup the rounds things out. Some guys wear a padded dancebelt.
The tight butt look, where each cheek is well defined and the tights fit up the butt crack is easily achieved...some guys call it the "no unibutt" look.
I have a document that I send to guys who want this look. I'm not a freak, so please dont't be worried. E-mail me at theboy@balletboy.com with your address and I'll send you the advice that I learned from pro danseurs while taking classes in NYC.
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