Your instincts about quitting are probably correct. You see some nasty stuff going on and you don't like it. My advice to you is don't quit dancing, it would be quite a shame. But do yourself a favor, and find someone else to dance for.
And one more thing: if they're trying to get you to lose weight, they're crazy. I weigh 10 pounds more than I did when I was not dancing regularly, and I'm skinnier as well. I eat all I can, just to maintain my weight.[/i]