I'm writing back!
The look you want, on these boards it's been known as the NoUniButt look, is very simple to achieve with almost any pair of tights (I was emailed recently....it doesn't work with pantyhose because they are too tight).
The instuctions are simple, but kind of too long to paste into this message. Email me (Click on the highlighted "balletboy" above) and I'll send you an attachment with the instructions. Or ask anyone else here that you might email if they'll email you my instructions.
theboy@balletboy.com
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