It's great that you got into ballet! Ballet is an excellent way to keep fit, and the cordination of the movement to the music is much more fun than ploding around in the gym.
I was intersted in ballet before puberty. As a danseur, I believe dancewear is a uniform, what I wear to work. You'll find that as you get more into ballet the dancewear will become second nature, without connotations.
However, when not in ballet class, you can still enjoy the sensuality of body-fitting clothing!
Keep up the ballet!
balletboy
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