geschrieben von balletboy  am 06.12. um 04:11:16

I appreciate your respone.  I did not know you were Asian.  I know things are different there, and someplaces a relationship between men that started between a 13 year old male and a 17 year old male might be acceptable.  But I also know there are parts of Asia where chewing gum or smoking can get you thrown into jail.

I appreciate two male who found themselves in love at an early age.  I fantasize about haveing met my perfect male lover at age 8 and being tied together since that young age. So believe me, if that's the case with you, I wish you and your lover every happiness.

BUT...you said that you thought that the US was the most open society in the world.  It is not.  In the US we have these older perverts that prey on young boys, only for sex.  As a gay male, I hate these perverts.  No man should be exploited by another.  That's what's important in the US, the ability to freely hate those we think are only out to hurt others.  

The US is not that great.  What US freedom means is the freedom to hate, rarely to love.  There are many people who hate me just because I love ballet, and who hate me because I'm gay. I hate people who exploit others for their own pleasure.  Because of my attitude in the US and the press we've had about older men that exploit young boys for sex, I criticized your relationship.  That's part of my US culture.  Please understand that.

I still think you should consider counselling.  My bias is that a relationship between two men should be man-to-man.  I don't like the idea of a guy trying to have girl breasts to please his male lover.  A lover should love you for the person you are, a man, and you shouldn't have to fit into a box to please him.  That's my bias.  I believe people should love another for the persons they are.

To top it off, there are guys who post here to amuse themselves, making up stories.  I usually am understanding, but recently got burned for my openess on the serious male dancer board.  I won't go back there.

I hope you understand.  I love men that love dance.  If you love dance, you have my love.

balletboy

• Re: Sorry Chrissy, BUT.... - Chrissy at - 06.12. 05:20:47