HI ADAM! WELCOME!!
However, I'm going to suggest you might try other web-sites. Try www.danceart.com; they have message boards for Men in Dance, for "Guys' Club (teens)" and for guys under 13.
There's also www.balletalert.com, who, in their "Ballet Talk" section, have message boards for young dancers.
Although there are some serious guys who use this board, there are also some guys who talk about things that may be disturbing. The other sites I mention have access to dance teachers and other people who will give a more balanced perspective on dance.
There are some of us at this site that will give you honest, serious answers to some questions you might have, so don't think this is a message saying don't use this board. Just focus on the positive rather than the negative!
Keep dancing!! balletboy[/i]