Joe gave some good advice about training, so I won't add to that.
You asked for e-mail, but didn't give your e-mail address.
I live just outside Chicago. Chicago is a large area, and there are many good ballet teachers/schools here. If you could e-mail a more general location (e.g. Schamburg; Oak Park; Lincoln Park), I'm sure I could direct you to a teacher. (To e-mail me, just click on the highlighted "DancingDoc" at the top of the message.
Also be aware of the fact that as a minor (at age 13), you're going to need a permission slip signed by your parent/guardian. This is because of liability concens among teachers/schools. If this may be a problem, you may get a teacher to help convince your parents about the values of ballet training. There are male teachers that can help with some of those "man" issues, too!
I also think it's wise to advise you that there are other web-sites that have special groups for younger guys interested in ballet, and you can often find friends that that are more your age. Try www.danceart.com. They have a section of message BOARDS, that includes "Guy's Club" for teens. When you log on they'll ask you about joining for $10.00, BUT you can read and post on the boards as a "GUEST" without charge. There's also www.balletalert.com, and they have special groups, including a teens group and a men's board. Log on and click on ballet-talk there. You can join as a junior memeber without charge.
Good luck! DancingDoc
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