Let me see...you aren't gay & you don't take ballet; thereforeanybody who does take ballet is gay...? I don't like to criticiseother people's parents, but this reasoning strikes me as *very*strange.
==> shameless plugFor a general answer to that kind of talk, see the question, "I'ma man. I feel funny about taking ballet classes. I mean, isn'tit...er...a little...?" in my ballet-modern FAQ, reachable via myWeb page.
Tom Parsons