However, I believe this is no reason for your son to not experience ballet; it's another thing he should be aware of. He should be told how to react if this occurs.
I was never threatened physically because of my ballet interests, but would have fought to the death if I was. Verbally, I was assaulted constantly. My brother and his friends called me balletboy. I, in turn, wrote "balletboy" on my t-shirts and told everyone I loved the nick-name balletboy. I survived.
I hope that you decide to have your son take both ballet and martial arts. But if you decide otherwise, I would respect your decision as a parent.
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