the male dancer all you need for ballet & dance for beginners & advanced register for free now !  de - en - es - nl tribute for all women Users online: 146 [ Forum ]  [ New messages ] Name (register):  Password registered user:  Email address (optional):  Subject:  Text formatting:                     [i]> [snip] As to Mike C., he unfortunately unhappy and a bigot. I have no respect for that type of attitude. [snip]<p>Well, I tried not to be too hard on him, because when I was 18,<br>I was no better. I could have written that entire ignorant spew<br>myself back then. I saw the Sadler's Wells that year, & I decided<br>that if I never saw another ballet in my life, that would be<br>okay with me. And I was just as homophobic as he is; the only<br>difference is that with him it seems to be the arms, & with me it<br>was those *tights*, which seemed designed to leave nothing to the<br>imagination & to attract...well, never mind.<p>I spoke about not being able to "save" him. But nobody saved me.<br>What saved me was growing up. That and spending a year shacked up<br>with a girl. Once you've spent a year in a relationship like that,<br>you have no more insecurities about your sexuality. So if the<br>passage of time, & abundant opportunities to prove myself sexually,<br>"saved" me, maybe they will save him, too. I hope so.<p>Tom[/i] URL of own homepage (optional):  Name of homepage (without the homepage will not show!):  URL of a picture (optional):       Tags for smilies [neener]   [lurk]   [fire]   [grmpf-blue]   [grmpf-red]   [grmpf]   [brood-blue]   [brood-lilac]   [brood-red]   [brood]   [heart-pink]   [heart]   [kiss]   [normal]   [oh-lilac]   [acidic-red]   [oh]   [acidic-lilac]   [acidic-red]   [acidic]   [smile-orange]   [smile]   [pointed]   [updown]   [twinkle]