All of us are different, and have different sizes. That doesn't mean we are not men!
I think everyone knows I'm gay. For me, being gay means loving a person of my own sex...not having sex. All men are different.
Some of my ballet buddies do different things to make their package look "good." It's not how it looks, but how comfortable it is for dance.
I use a band of fabric around the base of my penis and testicles, to bring them up, away from my body, and out of harms way. It enhances my look, but I do it for me, not for anyone else. I rarely have another guy in my classes. I'm gay, and don't enhance to make the girls gawk. I do what I need to do to be comfortable while dancing.
As a man, I like to think that people look at my bulge and admire my manhood...that's just a part of being male. Bull-fighters stuff socks into their crotch to intimidate the bulls. But that's kind of phoney. When I'm with a lover, I want to be me...to be honest....to be the person I am.
Don't be insecure about your bulge. On stage we portray a character, masculine bulge and all, but with our lovers we need to be real.
balletboy
>I have a very small penis, less than 3 inches when erect and I am uncut. I don't masturbate at all and I find it being horny all the time is better than masturbation.. When I dance, I roll down my foreskin and have my sensitive glans pressed tightly between my ab and my dancebelt. I cut off the inner layer of materials of my dancebelt, to minimise the layers of clothing. I also make sure my tights are rolled up tightly to it's limit, the constant rubbing creates a good sensation, tickling my exposed glans and keep me erect all the time. I wear white tights but my erection doesn't show up at all but just a very faint outline of a small organ. I like mine flat, just like the girls, but I also envy other boys with their big bulge, watching their bouncing bulges makes my cockette (thats what the other boys playfully describe my penis, as they know I am gay and always wanted to be a girl) strain that much harder and creating waves of titillation. >Also, a boy in my class uses an elastic band, just the ones that you sew onto your ballet shoes, to shrink wrap between the base of his penis and his testicles, I saw him do it when we are changing for class, I asked why and he told me this will bunch up the sack and become extra promonent under the dancebelt, his penis is about 5 inches long when he has a soft on, and it looks huge to me under his tights, which I adore and I sometimes squeezes his manhood when we are waiting for our next sequence of routine. I hope this help you to have your organ becoming more visible.>Lesley [/i]