I certainly don't consider everyone who posts here to be a pedophile, yet I have read messages in these Parsimony forums from men who are unabashed pedophiles or borderline pedophiles. Their existence here, in this unmoderated environment, poses a terrible risk to DnCrBoi. There's no way for anyone to tell whether a message that seems innocent yet asks for a private response really is innocent or the start of an attempted seduction.
DnCrBoi, if you are still reading this thread, there are two websites - www.balletalert.com and www.danceart.com - that have discussion groups for boys your age. These groups are monitored. The only adults that can join are the monitors and a couple of other people that have been approved. You'll be happier and safer there.[/i]